I Love Him...
But i'm not sure i'm
But why? What does this mean, really?
I Love Him...
But i'm not sure i'm
But why? What does this mean, really?
Your marriage didn’t start out this way.
In fact, maybe your early relationship was wrapped in moments of LOVE, conversations about LOVE, and dreams of LOVE for the future.
And maybe that’s what you want now: To love your partner… and be IN LOVE with him, too.
But… is it possible?
You’re ready for date nights out - regularly.
You want deep conversations (and not just when you bring up a tough topic).
You crave connection with your husband… to feel like “one” again.
Because you know that LOVE should feel better than this.
LOVE is about being seen, being heard, being understood: BEING KNOWN.
So… what’s happened?
Instead of feeling in love, you’re stuck in a cycle of questioning where the love went… and why it feels more like a struggle than the easy, abiding love you had years ago.
Maybe you’re going through the motions in your marriage… and you’re getting tired of holding onto how things used to be.
Maybe you have a perfectly “fine” marriage… but you crave that IN LOVE feeling from the early days.
Maybe you’re ready to bring the “spark” back to your relationship… but your husband just doesn’t understand how disconnected you are (or worse, he’s completely oblivious).
You think, “How did we get here? What happened?”
Well, let me tell you…
The problem is, our expectations for marriage have changed… but how we show up to this relationship has mostly remained the same.
And if we want our marriages to feel good again, well - we have to learn how to love differently.
That’s why I’m here to help.
Hi, I’m Sharon Pope. I’m a Master Coach who helps strong, successful women get the confidence and clarity they need in relationships. Through 10+ years in relationship coaching, I’ve helped thousands of women find the clarity they need to give their marriage new life (OR release it peacefully, without regret).
Learning to Love is the “relationship guidebook” we all needed when we got married… but just didn’t receive (or realize we were missing!).
Inside, you’ll find 21 real-life tools you can start implementing in your marriage TODAY to rekindle the connection between you and your spouse.
How to enjoy a genuinely happy, healthy relationship… even if you’ve already tried EVERYTHING to make it better!
The 5 words killing most marriages… and how to reframe them to create a successful partnership!
Why divorce should always be an option… and why having that option actually strengthens your relationship!
And how it only takes ONE person within the relationship… to create real change within a struggling marriage!
Learning to Love shares 21 secrets that will help you build the kind of relationship you desire with practical tools that last a lifetime.
5 Secret Blindspots that will challenge the ways you engage with your husband.
7 Practical Secrets that will leave you wondering, “Why didn’t anyone TELL ME this?!”
6 Surprising Secrets that will change your understanding of every relationship you’ve ever experienced…
And 3 Spiritual Secrets that explain why our most intimate relationships provide the greatest challenges AND opportunities for growth!
It’s a quick, powerful read that will help you answer the question… “How can we stop living like roommates and start enjoying life as a closely connected couple again?”
I share personal stories - including a brief history of 3 generations of marriage in my family.
I share client stories - including a conversation about betrayal and another about the blame / shame game that takes place in most struggling relationships.
I share personal insight - including how my husband and I use these tools (with success!) in our own relationship.
I share coaching success stories - including one woman who relinquished control over everything… to embrace more cooperation from her husband.
If I could give you the best chance for success in your most intimate relationship (including a TOOLBOX full of practical things you can start implementing right away!)... this would be it.
"I read the entire book in one shot. Sharon sends a powerful message in her book: If you want change, you have to start with yourself. Some of the tips are hard truths about how to bring about change... But they're truths ladies, not just suggestions. The folks down home would call this book “a smack upside the head.” A real game-changer."
- Amanda
"I read the entire book in one shot. Sharon sends a powerful message in her book: If you want change, you have to start with yourself. Some of the tips are hard truths about how to bring about change... But they're truths ladies, not just suggestions. The folks down home would call this book “a smack upside the head.” A real game-changer." - Amanda
*FOR A LIMITED TIME ONLY*
When you buy the book, you also receive *special* BONUS content to add to your relationship toolbox.
The IN Love Audio-Book so you can listen to me read the book… while you drive to work in the morning or make dinner in the evening!
The IN Love Journaling Prompts to help you digest some big questions within the book and incorporate these 21 tools into your relationship!
When you buy the ebook RIGHT NOW, you pay $7.95 for everything - the downloadable ebook, the audio-book, and the journaling prompts!
As soon as you place your order, you’ll get an email that includes the ebook AND the bonus content.
(In case discretion is needed: When you order through my website, your purchase shows up as “Sharon Pope Book” on the billing statement.)
*Offer only valid for ebooks purchased
through this site.
There’s also a 14-Day
Risk-Free Guarantee!
I believe in this work so much that I’m offering a 100% money-back guarantee.
If you’re not in love with this book (like I know you will be!), no worries - I’ll refund your purchase… and let you keep the ebook* and the bonus content anyway.
Just email to support@sharonpope.com within 14 days of purchase, and I’ll refund your money - no questions asked.
There’s also a 14-Day
Risk-Free Guarantee!
*Offer only valid for ebooks
purchased through this site.
I believe in this work so much that I’m offering a 100% money-back guarantee.
If you’re not in love with this book (like I know you will be!), no worries - I’ll refund your purchase… and let you keep the ebook* and the bonus content anyway.
Just email to support@sharonpope.com within 14 days of purchase, and I’ll refund your money - no questions asked.
Having read Sharon's first book, I was eager to get my hands on this one... and I haven't wanted to put it down! As a therapist myself, I find it very useful. But as a married woman, I believe all men should give this a read, too! Sharon explains things in such a real way, and it's nice to hear your own thoughts reaffirmed, followed by steps to improve... knowing that we can all make improvements, even if we're working alone! Highly recommend. -Tamara
This book is my guide to understanding marriage, men, and myself. It provides training in one of the most important parts of my life: my marriage... but it's also about human behaviour, so it's relatable within other kinds of relationships, too! -Lety
Sharon’s words and insight are incredible. She is able to use everyday examples to share how we act in ways that sabotage our primary relationship. And as marriage has changed over the years, her information is timeless. (Her encouragement is timeless, too!) Her focus on personal accountability and initiative are refreshing and so relevant to my relationship! -Susan
Where have you been, Sharon, throughout my 46 years of marriage? This information is presented in a way no one can possibly refute. I am so excited to keep on changing what I bring to the relationship to make it so much better!! -Robbin
All I can say is... wow! If you ever find yourself wondering why things are so hard in your marriage (What am I doing wrong? Why is this so much work? How will we ever make this last?) ...this book is for you! My big takeaways: (1) If you aren't willing to change, nothing will change. (2) Your perception of an issue doesn't make it true! (3) It's not always about YOU! (4) You must be willing to walk away if you can't change, because you can't change someone else to make you or your marriage "better!" Sharon nails it! She says it like it is, not how you like to hear it. I have bookmarked more pages in this book than in any other relationship book I've read... and trust me, I've read a lot! This one resonates with me. And it will with you, too! There are so many examples and real-life scenarios. Read it! And then give it to your spouse to read! (Maybe with a card that says, "With this book, we can find our way back to each other!") You won't be sorry you did. -Tracy
Having read Sharon's first book, I was eager to get my hands on this one... and I haven't wanted to put it down! As a therapist myself, I find it very useful. But as a married woman, I believe all men should give this a read, too! Sharon explains things in such a real way, and it's nice to hear your own thoughts reaffirmed, followed by steps to improve... knowing that we can all make improvements, even if we're working alone! Highly recommend. -Tamara
This book is my guide to understanding marriage, men, and myself. It provides training in one of the most important parts of my life: my marriage... but it's also about human behaviour, so it's relatable within other kinds of relationships, too!
- Lety
Sharon’s words and insight are incredible. She is able to use everyday examples to share how we act in ways that sabotage our primary relationship. And as marriage has changed over the years, her information is timeless. (Her encouragement is timeless, too!) Her focus on personal accountability and initiative are refreshing and so relevant to my relationship!
- Susan
Where have you been, Sharon, throughout my 46 years of marriage? This information is presented in a way no one can possibly refute. I am so excited to keep on changing what I bring to the relationship to make it so much better!!
- Robbin
All I can say is... wow! If you ever find yourself wondering why things are so hard in your marriage (What am I doing wrong? Why is this so much work? How will we ever make this last?) ...this book is for you! My big takeaways: (1) If you aren't willing to change, nothing will change. (2) Your perception of an issue doesn't make it true! (3) It's not always about YOU! (4) You must be willing to walk away if you can't change, because you can't change someone else to make you or your marriage "better!" Sharon nails it! She says it like it is, not how you like to hear it. I have bookmarked more pages in this book than in any other relationship book I've read... and trust me, I've read a lot! This one resonates with me. And it will with you, too! There are so many examples and real-life scenarios. Read it! And then give it to your spouse to read! (Maybe with a card that says, "With this book, we can find our way back to each other!") You won't be sorry you did.
-Tracy
Great relationships aren’t made from luck and magic.
Great relationships are made from people doing the work…
and using the right tools to make things work.
Great relationships start by learning these 21 secrets.
